I Dress Preppy But Don’t Genuinely Have Any Frien

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I’m blonde, slightly tan thin (5’4 and 115 pounds) am not flatchested and wear abercrombie hollister ae, juicy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ed hardy, uggs, carry coach anything preppy trendy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], etc. i put effort into my appearance but don’t put on a lot of makeup just basics,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have been told I am appealing.
But I do not definitely have any friends. I go to a community college and the atmosphere there’s not rather social,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it seems like people go to class and then leave trigger everybody commutes. I from time to time see people who dress like me and have a couple of people today i make smaller speak with but they appear to already have their own friends outside of class and i dont know how to make them my friend.
My only buddy is my cousin and she is emo,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all her friends by association are also emo and they’re the only ppl i hang out with and i stick out like a sore thumb and have nothing in common with them (various clothes, music,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], tv watching, and so forth) and they kinda ignore me.
The only attention i get from guys are these random guys that try to hit on me to have sex with me or they already have a girlfriend.
Im incredibly nice and Im also intelligent, i at times fear i come off TOO intelligent, feel kinda lonely idk what Im doing wrong.
Effectively it seems you’re kinda obsessed with the brand of one’s clothing, and that suitable off the bat is often a turnoff. I do not like people who are materialistic, and not numerous individuals do( except gold diggers probably). So to start producing new friends, make certain your conversation is not about your new Juicy sweats!! or the comfiest UGG boots! start off with an ice breaker like introducing your self, or commenting on the class you’re taking using the particular person(be certain not to be like this class sucks-because the particular person may well be the professor’s daughter,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or they may well adore the class.) comment on how a thing is fascinating or how nice the campus is(idk!) To turn out to be someone’s buddy, it doesnt matter is you’re preppy or pretty- a correct friend has beauty inside.
you sound like me.
for awhile i cried and whined about not having anybody to hang out with.
that didn’t get me anywhere.
so i just got more than it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and i gave up seeking friends.
at times it’s better to fly solo for awhile.
there is absolutely nothing worse then pushing yourself on somebody and seeking desperate.
and what you put on has Nothing to do with who you speak to,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that’s if the folks you speak to is not shallow. but you stated you’re smart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so you need to know that already.
Persons are just jealous of you.I know I’m. And also u need to socialize with others to make friends. Communication is key.