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A wife says to me, if cannot marry a man that can promote oneself from each respect, do not have necessary marriage so. Why to want to marry? You love a person, must not marry him certainly, follow him to bear hardships be put into trouble; You are willing and a life lives, so good with respect to the life, why should get that piece of card? Got card to was equal to his to go up to cover, you should take care of his feeling, want to serve his father and mother, bear children to him even, if he does not have prospect all one's life, is you bind your life together with such man very deficient? And in the future one day, although he developed really, that how? Of enjoy a happy life not be you certainly!
Not come singly but in pairs, a man says to me, if do not have stand out, the man need not get married, because of what can marry with you, it is the drug of marital market. In that way girl is married originally do not go out, you married her, she not only not the heart is unripe appreciate, return from morning till night to scold your good-for-nothing, and in case you walked along dog excrement eventually use is successful, she returns of course land reap where one has not sown, by what? So, his viewpoint is: If man not civil, had better be silent the ground lowers his head to work [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if must marry, so the woman that chooses those to be able to aid him a helping hand, otherwise, marry what to sense have again? Without foundation many be a burden on.
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Marriage has investment function originally, but if you are an astute investor, I suggest you want to marry far from, because marry regard as investment tool, risk coefficient is too tall. You are not as other as investment dot, for instance estate. On this world, never an investment goes up not to drop only. Be opposite so for investor, the most important is eye, see punctual opportunity [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], when drop average, when going up to peak get off one's hands, such ability are met gain money.
But what is marriage? Marriage is you and a collective life of the person, that is to say, what you invest is life [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the person's lifetime is lengthy process, you are accomplished how possibly every time, in one individual suitable condition when with high position and great wealth of his drink to the dregs, when his adversity when cut him the flesh? Go up again when him next when, again his average? Your even if has eye to see he goes up greatly after 20 years, whether can be you borne and his people in the same condition help each other 20 years? To marriage, a lot of time are not only test eye, still have your endurance, and your endurance greatly, concern with your feeling. You love a person, you tolerate to his degree of nature is tall, if you do not love him so, do not say to let you wait 20 years, let you wait 20 days namely, you also can feel one day seems like a year.
My a lot of friends say to me, they cannot find the reason that marry completely, unless the other side is enough and outstanding enough success is enough the destiny that changes oneself, why should marry otherwise? Life has worked hard quite, look for a not quite outstanding and insufficient success to change the man of own destiny or woman not quite again, where is why bother? I say to them [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you do not marry, can your life become so not painstaking? Work hard because of life just about, just need to seek a person so, not quite outstanding perhaps insufficient success changes this person not quite your destiny, but you are together, can you make painstaking life so not alone at least?
Early when, had seen a movie, annisidu acts the leading role, there is an actor's lines inside, annisidu says to her fiance, carelessness is to say: "I know to do not have you, I also can live euqally, live possibly even weller, but I am not willing. " when seeing that movie, I am getting the influence of person of a lot of learned, think marital system is the ideal least of all system that human place invents, the mankind does not have necessary marriage at all, the men and women should love each other only, so be together; Love each other no longer, part even if, why to want book of one first wedding anniversary to be restricted each other? But, see Annisidu attacks to conceive that an instant in to fiance, what do I experience to call marriage suddenly. Marital disclose, namely " I am willing " -- when you decide to marry, mean you to be willing to mix actually him (she) spend lifetime in all, and alleged spend lifetime in all, no matter arrange condition or adversity,be, health still is a disease, poverty is rich still, you are willing and he (her) together, part you till death.
So, I think the mankind invents marriage, it is to think originally to us not quite ideal life adds a reason probably, one lets us no matter [link widoczny dla zalogowanych],feel how, go up in this world at least, you once had encountered a person, you are willing to spend the person of lifetime in all to it, and this is us one of purposes to this the world. |||Reality is very brutal
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